< So for me it's more try living in my house which last week was in crisis between meltdowns, school refusal, school arrogance and nightmares to hospital appointments and hypermobility research, honestly, I reached absolute frustration and needed my own time out !
But reality is parents of special kids don't get that option !
For Mother's Day I asked for time out ! I got chocolate and pestered whilst trying to have a wee!!!!
I love em !
Completely but a rest ooooo…….
Anyway I found this at about three in the morning when I had finally got one to calm down had a few hours sleep and the howlers needed feeding.
I think that’s where the eldest is at burnt out !
I feel for her I do she has so much going on but burn out for me means verbal abuse and a lot of gas lighting
it’s not just men I think asd/ADHD/PDA read the book on this !
It’s sad but when she hurts, it’s like she has to hurt those around her till they feel what she feels and she isn’t happy till she does 😦
If another person try’s to help, spouts off about how they can manage and leaves not knowing what to so saying no one should live like this again I may be guilty of gbh because I live like this !
This is reality !
I manage !
Not well all the time but I manage !
They are breathing after all 😉